其在這裡講番以前ex d ��, 並唔係因為我再對他仍有任何悁戀, 首先, 我愛我既fiance, 冇佢就冇今日既我, 一路以來, 佢容許我唔受佢既求婚, (成2次�w.) 佢無條件咁支持我所作出既decision, I love him!! As for my ex-hus, frankly I had a bit hatred since I found out he had an affair in Mainland, but it's been a part of my history, at least I live better now.  I've changed more or less coz of my ex.  

Let's carry on my story.....91年聖誕節後, 我成為佢gf, 個陣邊鬼豎有e-mail咁方便��!!  但我又唔係成日打電話比佢, 反而佢成日打���w.  冇計喇, 我係"窮學生"嘛!! 之後段段續續都有男仔追我, (我後生個陣唔差��!! 我又唔mind show 我既長腿.) 而佢亦成日call 佢個friend睇住我, 驚我比人追左, 唉!!....咁都冇法��, 佢又離開咁遠.....

特別係每年summer, 我想繼續留係度讀埋summer兼做�鮥art-time幫補��, 佢成日都話唔好, 要我陪佢返hk for vacation. 算喇, 93 年比佢話左2句, 咁就返左香港度假, 順便探�韱addy, Mummy.

第1次見我ex d 家人, 第一個感覺係, 好"家,春,秋"feel, 我ex對上有個大哥, 勁好人, 幫我ex 老爺打理生意, 而老爺係一個極傳統既男人, 可能係潮州人卦 佢地第1次見到我既感覺係----"高", 我依稀聽到好似, 嘩....細x, 點會搵個高過自己既女人做女友��!!??  

你估我想咁高��!!??  天生�赯�!!  我真係想咁講, 但冇......佢地後來問我讀乜�殄aculty, 我話讀mass communication, 即傳理系, 佢地問我搵唔搵到食, 我到係話"睇�鵀傖N人請先得��!!" 不過其實當時我同我ex相量過, 點解唔係出面闖�擸z!! 對於我來說, 我希望我學完既�洏i以應用返出來, 所以我grad 之後我真係係間報館做左2年. 起碼, 我有reach 到 我既 target ��!!......

[ 本帖最後由 kathywonder 於 2007-7-18 08:00 編輯 ]

剛剛bf打電話返��, 終於同d舊同事飲完酒, 順便講埋我同佢結婚d��!!

94年讀完, �咱狎翂egree, 帶左四方帽, 開心!! 95年我爸爸pass away by cancer. It seemed ridiculous coz he's a non-smoker but he was one of the victim killed by lung cancer. 佢唔係hk個段時間, 有個男仔想追我, 佢當時既條件比我ex-hus好很多, 我唔會講佢係邊個, 但佢係我係其中一次job I interviewed with. 我可以係 i-bank 度做, 其中一個原因都係佢. 雖然我不過係一個 e-secretary, of course I didn't want to be a person just handlin' a job like typin', dealin' with letters, filing, makin' appointment....etc......I tried to equip myself more and that's why I took business admin at City U.  95年尾, ex-hus 返�縿k, 佢搵左間bank(not i-bank)度做acct,.....做左9個月覺得唔中意. 其實當時我曾經鼓勵佢試�翵銗L既working field, 但佢冇去試, 佢最後都返去打琍海味店生意.  anyway, 我鼓勵佢比心機幫佢爸爸手, 暗示佢或者試�髾xtent 其他既行業, ummmmm........

我有諗過離開佢, 但奶奶佢鼓勵我同佢一齊, 奶奶係一個好人, 到現在我都好感激佢既照顧, 相反我ex-hus就.........

[ 本帖最後由 kathywonder 於 2007-7-18 00:13 編輯 ]

97年尾, 唔記得幾時了, 一晚, 大家睇完戲並車我返屋企, 我準備開閘返上屋企時, 佢同我講......我地不如結婚囉, 都拍左差不多6年拖! 其實我冇諗過佢同我既求婚係咁"平平無奇"��!! 但係個陣, 心成日諗, 算喇! 佢雖然唔smart,但對我都算係咁...."而個陣見到其他朋友刀好多都結左婚....自己就......算喇, 就同佢結婚吧!!

相對來說, 我fiance既求婚就sweet好多了.....記得半年前, 係IFC 間Le Parisien度bk 左張�^, 我同我fiance打對面坐, 佢突然之間擺左盒�洃W�^, then he said: "It's for you, take this!!" And I said" Nope, I don't." and pushed it back to him, 如事者推左2次, 到第三次時, 盒�炩^左落地, My God!! 係條好靚既necklace, 咁大個女都未試過有男仔送過比我, Then my fiance said "It's so beautiful, you'll be focused if you take it in wedding!!" 但最後我竟然係Reject 左佢,......當時係我仍對婚姻冇信心.......to be continued.....

[ 本帖最後由 kathywonder 於 2007-7-18 00:17 編輯 ]

一個好淒美既愛情故事......

Read the first part of your story, very charming !!

All the best & Congratulations.

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2007-7-17 23:26 發表
97年尾, 唔記得幾時了, 一晚, 大家睇完戲並車我返屋企, 我準備開閘返上屋企時, 佢同我講......我地不如結婚囉, 都拍左差不多6年拖! 其實我冇諗過佢同我既求婚係咁"平平無奇"��!!

My God!! 係條好靚既necklace, 咁大個女都未試過有男仔送過比我, Then my fiance said "It's so beautiful, you'll be focused if you take it in wedding!!"

學到野了
thx kathy

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原帖由 dove 於 2007-7-18 03:19 發表



學到野了
thx kathy

Thks anyway!! But if u really take a lesson from my ex-hus, it'd be in worst; and why not do it passionate as what my fiance did, it should be worked.

KAthy

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2007-7-18 08:20 發表



Thks anyway!! But if u really take a lesson from my ex-hus, it'd be in worst; and why not do it passionate as what my fiance did, it should be worked.

KAthy

Good morning. You are so early.

早晨呀

虽然我不认识你, 但都鄧你开心, 能找到一个你和他都喜欢对方的人, 恭喜!

再一次恭喜 Kathy !  幾時請飲一定要通知聲, 一定送份賀禮過你地 !!

大波女神都係呀 !!                

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原帖由 太冒險家 於 2007-7-17 12:19 發表
屌   你   啦!!  F a c k   y o u !!
原帖由 johnkarry 於 2007-7-17 12:21 發表

好心你!!!係 FUCK, not Fack!!!

Orrrr....原來佢以為FUCK係鴨鴨呀！

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原帖由 成熟溫柔男士 於 2007-7-18 22:25 發表
再一次恭喜 Kathy !  幾時請飲一定要通知聲, 一定送份賀禮過你地 !!

大波女神都係呀 !!                

一定一定

36F
Since when have you become the spokesperson for Kathy?

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原帖由 大波妹 於 2007-7-18 15:18 發表


一定一定

一言為定 !          

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原帖由 成熟溫柔男士 於 2007-7-18 23:45 發表

一言為定 !          

Hi!! Sam How' re u doing!!??

一直以來, 我對我ex-hus都唔會有乜好大期望, 但自從計劃結婚後, 工作上他比以前積極了很多, 而個陣佢同佢daddy 話想將魚翅既加工接埋�蟆�, 所以佢亦開始擺多左時間係大陸既工作. 見到佢比以前aggressive, 自己亦戥佢開心, 就算結婚之前好多瑣碎事要辦, 都覺得, 值得既, 值得既!!  在這一段時間, ex-hus經常要中港兩邊走. 而有一個weekend, 我準備要去睇我wedding d evening dress 時, 突然間比架小巴由尾撞左一��..........

可能之前�埜o唔係咁好, 撞左車知後我就暈左, 淤瘀左左邊咀角, 撞傷心口, 醒返個陣先知已經�圊Y醫院. 第一眼望到既係我mummy, 同 Rachel, my sis, 之後就係我奶奶, 我當時第一時候就係想起我ex-hus, 我打去他的mobile, 話比佢聽...我撞左車, 而家係醫院, .............. 佢當時既反應是........冇���儦�!! 叫左你唔好再做呢份工, 你成日都唔聽, ��, 而家出事啦........) 你休息�鼣�, 我盡快做埋d�炴N返��!  

這一晚, 我冇�埳L, 亦�埻屭�, 一直喊..........to be continued.......

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2007-7-19 17:48 發表
一直以來, 我對我ex-hus都唔會有乜好大期望, 但自從計劃結婚後, 工作上他比以前積極了很多, 而個陣佢同佢daddy 話想將魚翅既加工接埋�蟆�, 所以佢亦開始擺多左時間係大陸既工作. 見到佢比以前aggressive, 自己亦戥 ...

媽的, 點做人老公, 比著我, 第一時間去醫院啦, 做嘢大哂咩!!!!

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原帖由 johnkarry 於 2007-7-19 17:52 發表

媽的, 點做人老公, 比著我, 第一時間去醫院啦, 做嘢大哂咩!!!!

算啦!!  如果我 eq 唔高既話, 可能我已經唔係度同到你"班"友仔傾偈喇!!  點都好, 而家Kathy有fiance and my lovely son to be with, 以前 d �洇畯灠O得了.  

Must leave now and I'll leave words tonite!!  C U !!

so glad to see kathy posting her story here.

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原帖由 大冒險家 於 2007-7-18 22:59 發表


Orrrr....原來佢以為FUCK係鴨鴨呀！

Ooops!!  I c, i c!!

Good Morning Kathy & all here !  have a nice day !!              




[ 本帖最後由 成熟溫柔男士 於 2007-7-21 03:02 編輯 ]

終於住左三日醫院, 冇整花塊面, 對腳冇事, 骨冇事, 但個心就.........

架車total lost左, 算喇, 人冇事!! 奶奶係個段時間好多時�褶蚥U我, (好感激佢!!) 之後我ex-hus返到�縿k, 好開心見到佢, 佢問我傷係邊度, 我話冇乜, 少事��!! Rachel my sis其實唔喜歡我ex-hus, 她個日見到佢時, 問"Where the hell 've you been, know Kat got accident and stayed hospital, and why no call to my sister......." "唔使做�洇r!!" 佢地係出面嗌交既�洇硠巨鴢{.  我只係講:"唔好嘈喇, 可以比我休息�儮�!!?? pls!!"

係.......當時真的很不開心!!

不過, 有一樣�洐�得高興的是佢係上海接到幾個hotel 既大客. 總算對佢有所交代, 但我同佢見面時間就越來越少.....係press方面既工作越來越好，但我想有一點轉變, 咁�渱able TV 新聞部要聘請 Anchor, 我對這方面係好有信心的, 話哂靠樣見人既, 我都幾有信心, 當然第一次interview, 全冇問題, (仲記得 in 我個個係趙應春�w.)

當晚! 我要去我ex-hus屋企食飯, 我諗住將這個消息講比佢聽. 當我講比我ex-hus個陣, 我從冇諗過佢會有咁既反應, 佢話:"又係新聞, 而家仲話要做電視新聞�w! 咁點得��! 拋頭露面....."

"拋頭露面" 我真係冇諗過佢會講這句說話的, 以為佢係Canada讀過書, 思想會開明點的, 冇諗過佢諗法係咁保守既. 飯中我只係話這是我喜歡的工作, 為什麼我唔可以選擇自己喜愛既工作呢!! 老爺跟住講:"唔係話唔得, 但你係報館做都已經好忙��, 而家做埋電視新聞既話.......你同阿X咪冇時間見面囉....考慮�鼣�!!"

我ex-hus 個晚好嬲, 冇理過我.......而我覺得自己冇理虧, 所以我們當晚......冷戰!

.........to be continued!......

期待緊 !  


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