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原帖由 simonkok 於 2008-5-13 13:28 發表


結左婚...離埋添...所以叫自己做'女人'!!

心血來潮醒起,唔知關唔關周董事.因為小弟成日聽.
唉.今次所需o既復原期超長.依家仲未好返...

等7少期間不如用個空檔做少少野.實在冇乜心情去打字.請原諒小弟沒有註解的檔案

[ 本帖最後由 par3 於 2008-5-16 16:10 編輯 ]

不得不講兩句.因為從第一個囡囡身上找唔倒感覺同心靈上o既慰藉.所以出來之後下一站又再去過.睇個時間就知啦
前一排心情差成咁.呢日好似係大家正式冇彎轉o既第一日

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 15:47 發表

小弟覺得同產地無關,主要係同下海時間長短有關,小弟的經歷令我有如下感覺
四川囡囡平時溫柔但性格火爆
東北囡囡比較率直但沒有情趣
湖南囡囡好玩但比較自私
河南囡囡古惑 (遇到o既搵唔倒優點添)
江蘇囡 ...

四川囡囡 -是NO。 1 - 我第一個飯盒就是四川。。一起六七年。。的確是溫柔。皮膚白滑。。身材美好。。。現在一個我很喜歡的MM也是四川﹐﹐但她對我是一般。。
東北囡囡 - 曾認識一個媽咪跟一個MM。。身材高挑。皮膚一般。性格很直爽的。。玩起來很放。。身材太高大了應付不來。
河南囡囡 - 的確是比較有心機。。一個在一起不長的MM。。(未成飯盒)。。發生的事情最多。。我沒有信心。。
湖南囡囡 - 都說湘女多情。。但我卻未遇到稍長久的。。我反覺得湖南MM比較現實。。
江蘇囡囡 - 現在的飯盒就是江蘇的。。她就很純的。。以前沒碰到其他江蘇女孩。。不知她們一般是怎樣。。

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-16 16:28 發表


四川囡囡 -是NO。 1 - 我第一個飯盒就是四川。。一起六七年。。的確是溫柔。皮膚白滑。。身材美好。。。現在一個我很喜歡的MM也是四川﹐﹐但她對我是一般。。
東北囡囡 - 曾認識一個媽咪跟一個MM。
河南囡囡 - 的確是比較有心機。。一個在一起不長的MM。。(未成飯盒)。。發生的事情最多。。我沒有信心。。
湖南囡囡 - 都說湘女多情。。但我卻未遇到稍長久的。。我反覺得湖南MM比較現實。。
江蘇囡囡 - 現在的飯盒就是江蘇的。。她就很純的。。以前沒碰到其他江蘇女孩。。不知她們一般是怎樣。。
...

yours and Par 3 analysis are very detailed.

河南囡囡 -  is it 機心instead of 心機?

how about 湖北？many K. and sauna girls in DG are from this province...

如果唔係走o左兩個月,我諗我係試唔倒LL個心入面諗乜o既.我曾經有咁o既打算,我返o黎之後如果佢冇令我失望.我真係好可能同佢計劃下一步o架.經濟上會reward佢呢幾個月以來o既付出同埋俾一筆私己佢令佢以後生活無憂.女人始終係要安全感o既.前事真係可以不提,但同我一齊之後冇決心去改變.永遠都有退路的話,我真係頂唔順.當我收倒一o的好可笑o既耳熟能詳o既短信時,我就知道係時候放手啦.因為唔知形容佢實在太不懂珍惜,抑或已經走上不歸路,返唔倒轉頭重新過未下海o既正常生活好.呢一次真係沉得好甘,傷得好應.所以我短期內都唔會再相信會有同佢係有將來o既囡囡.唔知點解,我真係好鐘意好鐘意佢,表面上佢有齊我心目中o既理想對像條件,如果同佢都唔work,真係冇人值得我去嘗試做戇九事啦.有時覺得自己太介意唔想去做hurt囡囡o個個,卒之到頭來變成自己一個受晒.點都好啦.今次之後我日後遇上同樣惰況就可以有個reference啦.我知道如果我今次唔嘗試的話,我以後一定會諗返轉頭,成世都囉囉孿.所以講到尾.我冇後悔為佢所做o既一切努力,雖然當自己決定嘗試之前曾經好理智去分析過都會覺得係冇可能咁戇九o既做咁多事換來無憾兩個字值唔值得?都值o既...

Par 3, I do not know you but want to give you my support and know a bit more some of your thoughts..

永遠都有退路的話,我真係頂唔順.當我收倒一o的好可笑o既耳熟能詳o既短信時,我就知道係時候放手啦.因為唔知形容佢實在太不懂珍惜:  
Did she betray you when you were not around? What does it mean by getting some foolish/common SMS?

抑或已經走上不歸路,返唔倒轉頭重新過未下海o既正常生活好
Do you want her to go back to the time when she worked for 1,000+ dollars a month?  It may be difficult for anyone, in particular to working girls.

呢一次真係沉得好甘,傷得好應.所以我短期內都唔會再相信會有同佢係有將來o既囡囡.
Sorry to hear that. Hope you could get well soon (the heart)

如果同佢都唔work,真係冇人值得我去嘗試做戇九事啦.:
But love is a foolish thing.. You may love another girl who does not meet your spec.  It is all about timing, fate, and environment..

所以講到尾.我冇後悔為佢所做o既一切努力,
Good to hear that. We should not regret what we have done, but regret what we have NOT done when there is a chance, as long as the hurting and $$ are not too huring or too big...

i don't demand her to work for 1000+ dollars a month, just don't spend a lot of money when she earned them easily. and i don't think she even need to work hard at all as i was considering being with her forever instead of keeping her as a lunch box.

what is her purpose and what is in her mind by sending me this? this is the first time she sent me something after the official break up. i have a thought in my mind, it may be cruel to both of us, but i really want to know how would i react to it. i just want to run into each other in the k and simply say hi...


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寄件者： par3
寄件日期：2008年5月16日 17:14:16
收件者：LL

你實在傷得我太深了.我不會再相信愛情了.

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 17:34 發表
what is her purpose and what is in her mind by sending me this? this is the first time she sent me something after the official break up. i have a thought in my mind, it may be cruel to both of us, ...

when you say she is hurting you.. do you mean that she is with other men or she still works as K/sna girl behind you?

Spending madness: I think it is difficult to stop this as this is woman's nature. Look at girls in HK, they may be wilder...

簡單地講.最主要o既問題係我只要求佢全心全意愛我.但佢做唔到.我唔想反轉豬肚,所以我唔想唱衰佢.真係知道成件事o既可能都係得兩三個.請bros見諒,衷心地多謝精神上o既支持

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原帖由 denny2000 於 2008-5-16 16:43 發表
yours and Par 3 analysis are very detailed.
河南囡囡 -  is it 機心instead of 心機?
how about 湖北？many K. and sauna girls in DG are from this province...

Met a lot of 湖北MM, they usually are beautiful and with fair skin. I actually know one MM from Hu Bei quite nice..but do not quite understand them....

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 18:04 發表
簡單地講.最主要o既問題係我只要求佢全心全意愛我.但佢做唔到.我唔想反轉豬肚,所以我唔想唱衰佢.真係知道成件事o既可能都係得兩三個.請bros見諒,衷心地多謝精神上o既支持

No problem.. Just want to show support..

全心全意愛我.. I think it is hard to achieve this..  Some girls are looking for a lot of love from more than one partners, possibly bcos of $ or security.  That's why I envy those brothers here who, not only have one, but more girls devoted to him...  

[ 本帖最後由 denny2000 於 2008-5-17 12:29 編輯 ]

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-16 18:10 發表


Met a lot of 湖北MM, they usually are beautiful and with fair skin. I actually know one MM from Hu Bei quite nice..but do not quite understand them....

ya, I hav got similar experience and feel.

你係唔係含沙射影緊7少

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 18:22 發表
你係唔係含沙射影緊7少

,唔係含沙射影 only, I am referring to him as the ultimate master of kau girl killer..

[ 本帖最後由 denny2000 於 2008-5-17 12:28 編輯 ]

"最主要o既問題係我只要求佢全心全意愛我"

這就是我們一直在追求的嘛。。
女女也不是一樣在追求全心全意愛她的人嗎。。但要兩個人都全心全意愛著對方就真的太難了。。太多因素了。。這就是緣份罷。。

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-17 10:38 發表
"最主要o既問題係我只要求佢全心全意愛我"

這就是我們一直在追求的嘛。。
女女也不是一樣在追求全心全意愛她的人嗎。。但要兩個人都全心全意愛著對方就真的太難了。。太多因素了。。這就是緣份罷。。

As a man, we want our girl 全心全意愛我 and do not even talk/meet other man.  At the same time, we want freedom to meet/kau other girls.  Is it fair? no, but it is our wish.

Even if 兩個人都全心全意愛著對方, how long could it last? 1 year, 2 years?   I doubt there is any couple who could love, 100% devoted to each other forever.  I may be persmisstic but I do not think it is possible.  

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原帖由 denny2000 於 2008-5-17 12:27 發表
As a man, we want our girl 全心全意愛我 and do not even talk/meet other man.  At the same time, we want freedom to meet/kau other girls.  Is it fair? no, but it is our wish.
Even if  ...

I do agree with you..
now I have a lunch box quite devoted to me, at least I feel that way..But I am still playing around..

May be lunch box is also playing aound, altho I am quite sure she is not, and who knows...

That is the game..as long as you feel comfortable  with the other one..just go on and enjoy..Who knows there will be how many years, or months..or even days..nothing is forever..we are getting older, already quite old..and the MM is loosing her beauty also as time goes..

there is only present..lets enjoy this beautiful moment... may be only days..or months and the most a few years...

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-17 06:57 發表


I do agree with you..
now I have a lunch box quite devoted to me, at least I feel that way..But I am still playing around..

May be lunch box is also playing aound, altho I am quite sure she ...

Agree.
Enjoy yourself at present and you will not regret when you get older!

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-17 14:57 發表


I do agree with you..
now I have a lunch box quite devoted to me, at least I feel that way..But I am still playing around..

May be lunch box is also playing aound, altho I am quite sure she ...

Ya, as long as you feel comfortable and happy in general (there must be frustration, anger and disappointment with every relationship), enjoy every moment!!

In fact, when your LB devotes to you, it is not enjoyable sometimes. She will "supervise/monitor" you, she will get angry if you do not have time with her, etc.  Maintaining a balance when she devotes to you but also let you free once in a while will be perfect but there is no perfect world..

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 18:22 發表
你係唔係含沙射影緊7少

Par3, 我又要叫你做番書仔了！含沙射影是一個眨詞！Deny2000兄沒有眨意的！

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原帖由 denny2000 於 2008-5-17 18:36 發表
Ya, as long as you feel comfortable and happy in general (there must be frustration, anger and disappointment with every relationship), enjoy every moment!!
In fact, when your LB devot ...

It is very true that LB will monitor you, may be not supervise, every minute...and actually will not allow us any free time..we can only plan 搭棚 the free time by ourselves..

I do enjoy the process of 搭棚！

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 15:47 發表


小弟覺得同產地無關,主要係同下海時間長短有關,小弟的經歷令我有如下感覺
四川囡囡平時溫柔但性格火爆
東北囡囡比較率直但沒有情趣
湖南囡囡好玩但比較自私
河南囡囡古惑 (遇到o既搵唔倒優點添)
江蘇囡 ...

咁有無試過囡囡好玩到畢生難忘, 現在還記得
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