thx for sharing

真是兩個世界的人。。他們就天天為了錢在煩。。是社會沒給他們機會。。還是他們沒努力。。
老婆可以去做雞。。老公可以在家等錢。。
覺得女人真偉大。。為愛人能這樣犧牲。。
做雞也只能做几年而已。。人老色衰了回家又干什麼呢。。
小男人就吃軟飯。。。有膽色的可能去偷去槍罷。。

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-4-7 17:29 發表
真是兩個世界的人。。他們就天天為了錢在煩。。是社會沒給他們機會。。還是他們沒努力。。
老婆可以去做雞。。老公可以在家等錢。。
覺得女人真偉大。。為愛人能這樣犧牲。。
做雞也只能做几年而已。。人老色衰 ...

敢偷敢搶就不是小男人啦.....
有人話港燦成日俾人搵笨無用.....
我諗點都好過D四川狼狗咬老軟掛.....

我的囡囡幫我吹時，也開始"咬老軟"了！55555!

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-4-7 18:57 發表
我的囡囡幫我吹時，也開始"咬老軟"了！55555!

"咬老軟"好過 "咬老舉"  

good report wow

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原帖由 simonkok 於 2008-4-7 18:20 發表

敢偷敢搶就不是小男人啦.....
有人話港燦成日俾人搵笨無用.....
我諗點都好過D四川狼狗咬老軟掛.....

港燦給人搵笨不是無用而是心好有同情心。。沒有時刻算計人。。

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-4-7 13:22 發表
after reading all these, i think bros will understand why i can't live with her any longer, honestly, i can stand someone doing something for money, but i can't stand she is doing it for the future ...

Brother Par 3, sympathy as I also had some bad experiences (similar but different and my girl is becoming better).  Sad enough, the reality is that most working girls who do something for money (you know what I mean) are hollow in heart, want security and need someone to speak to.  

Hollow in heart
they had not got much education nor worked for a long time. Therefore, they do not have the depth of thinking or exposure to the outside worlds.  In fact, imagine when you were 20's, we might not be better than them...

Want security
most of us are either married or look for short-term commitment from them.  The girls of course know it and they want to get married before 25 (if not eariler).  They also know that their market value depreciate everyday and would like to get 2nd lover/3rd lover/etc now to marry them or at least take care of them when we leave them.  

someone to speak to
We (HK) people and them are DIFFERENT: we speak different languages, come from different worlds, have different culture and are very different in ages, and what we have are $ and care/love.  Those wolf dogs would easily steal these girls' heart.   

Simply speaking, imagine if you were a 20's year old young and handsome man, but bcos of $, you had to stay with a 40's old gwei mui..  Would you do the same thing as your girls now are doing?  


I am not saying you have to tolerate...I just want to say whoever you meet up in the future, they will do things similarly, only to a different extents/different ways.  May be I am unlucky... but most of my girls' girlfriends who are attached to HKers/non-Chinese bosses have 2nd/3rd lovers...    Sorry, saying too much as I am going thru. some other kinds of pain and my friends are also tackling some wolf-dog issues like you...

"20's year old young and handsome man, but bcos of $, you had to stay with a 40's old gwei mui"--

Understand what you mean generally, actually in my case yes, but Par 3 is a young and handsome guy...

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-4-8 10:43 發表
"20's year old young and handsome man, but bcos of $, you had to stay with a 40's old gwei mui"--

Understand what you mean generally, actually in my case yes, but Par 3 is a young and handsome guy ...

Oops, apology to par 3...   

then it is silghtly different...  if Par 3 is not married neither, then the girl should have more affiliation with Par 3 gor...

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原帖由 denny2000 於 2008-4-8 10:50 發表
Oops, apology to par 3...   

then it is silghtly different...  if Par 3 is not married neither, then the girl should have more affiliation with Par 3 gor...

Par 3 is single, as far as I know when he met the MM. Think he is still single now..

But of course MMs have engaged earlier with their wolves, they would stick to them. Once a woman is attached to a man she loves she would not care if the man is good or what..and they will do anything for the man..

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原帖由 denny2000 於 2008-4-8 10:50 發表


Oops, apology to par 3...   

then it is silghtly different...  if Par 3 is not married neither, then the girl should have more affiliation with Par 3 gor...

大海兄抬舉啦

i am not a 20's la, so i am not young at all definitely get your pts, but the main problem is that we tend to believe the gals we sink for are different from others and they are worthy for us to go the extra miles, or we just sort of believe that we have the ability to change them as we treat them so well, they should be touched. however, the MMs may be touched, but they  just value security or wolf dog more in their hearts, and simply mainpulate us as a steping stone for their goal, so most of the time, we just overrate ourseleves or overrate the relationship because we are sinking

well, sometimes it is easy to analysis, but so difficult to execute as we are all kind and soft heart
hmm, let me rephrase it
sometimes it is so difficult for me to execute as i am soft heart

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-4-7 13:22 發表
after reading all these, i think bros will understand why i can't live with her any longer, honestly, i can stand someone doing something for money, but i can't stand she is doing it for the future ...

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我和你在一起的时候` 你从来不会承认我的存在` 去哪里也不告诉我` 跟本就没想过我的感受` 现在你知道担心  你知道我回去一个星期 我为什么出来吗？我以为你变了  可是我错了  所以我选择离开 我想证明我没有你 我一样可以好好的  你现在在哪里` 你也不告诉我  我不想给你电话  只是不想让你知道 我在哪里` 我想一个人安安静静的  懂吗？ 我们在一起6年了  6年说长不长 说短不短 可是6年又怎样？还不如我们开始2年 你不觉得我们现在都在彼此疏远吗？你想怎样 ？在告诉我吧！  

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你说的这些我都没法否定``但是我对你还是真的是吧``至于你问我怎么想``我能怎么想`我是真的不想在伤害你了`我也想我们能好好的过``但是我们两个的心里好象都有些奇怪的想法``反正我也不想为自己争辩什么``以后我自己好好的做``你如果以后能发现我变了更好` 如果发现不了那只能说明我不走运```
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我无以面对  我不知道怎么说现在心里的感觉 看到你的流言 听你姐姐给我说的话 我只有用泪来面对你  因为除了这样我不知道怎么办 我改变不了你  

the difference between wolf dog and i? she would never cry for me, or even input a little bit of heart into our relationship, still remember the nite when i was very sick, she just didn't border to say something in order to pretend that she cares, she simply ignored me and slept. should i admire her honesty?

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-4-9 16:00 發表

the difference between wolf dog and i? she would never cry for me, or even input a little bit of heart into our relationship, still remember the nite when i was very sick, she just didn't border to say something in order to pretend that she cares, she simply ignored me and slept. should i admire her honesty

then, it was a very bad case.. I think she should at least take care of you when u were unwell and pretend to cre for you by making some gesture (buy you a gift, etc)..  

Even better, she should learn to love you (which does not affect her commitment to wolf dogs) and at the end of the day, she will enjoy "the job-being with you" better.  Most of us hate to work sometimes but we need to tell ourselves to love it and enjoy it.  

非常支持你既報告..................................無得頂 !!!!

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什么是妻子？就是你愿意把积蓄交给她保管的女人。什么是情人？就是你偷偷摸摸地去和她约会又怕妻子撞见的女人。什么是红颜知己？就是你能把有些秘密说给她听却不能说给妻子听的女人。
    妻子是一种约束，约束你不能随便和别的女人交往；情人是一种补偿，补偿你想从妻子那得到却又无法得到的激情；红颜知己就是一种点拨，点拨你心中的迷津。
    妻子陪你过日子，情人陪你花钞票，红颜知己陪你聊聊天。妻子不能替代情人，因为她没有情人有情调；情人不能代替妻子，因为她没有妻子的亲情；妻子和情人都代替不了红颜知己，那是心灵的需要。
    妻子是一个和你没有一点血缘关系的女人，却为你深夜不回家而牵肠挂肚；情人是一个和你没有一点家庭关系的女人，却让你尝尽做男人滋味尽情消魂；红颜知己是一个还没和你扯上关系的女人，却能分担你的快乐和忧愁。
    妻子是一个家，是一个能给你浮躁的心带来安抚的港湾；情人是家的累赘，只是不到万不得已你不想甩掉；红颜知己是家的点缀，没有她你不会觉得寂寞，但你会觉得生活没意思。
    妻子的关心像一杯白开水，有时会成为一种唠叨，只是在生病时才成为一种温馨；情人的关心就像在白开水里加了一勺糖，慢慢地品上一个晚上还不满足；红颜知己的关心就像工作到午夜喝一杯咖啡，越喝越提神。
    妻子怀上你的孩子会深情地问你想要个男孩还是要个女孩，情人怀上你的孩子会哭着来问你该怎么办怎么办啊？对于红颜知己，你会把你的情人怀孕的消息告诉她，并问她你该怎么办。至于妻子，你会在她发现你的情人肚子大了的秘密后才告诉她：“其实，我早就想告诉你了。”然后拼命地向她解释，并作可怜状。

honestly, a wife is what i really want now, but it is so hard to find THE ONE...

妻子回了娘家一个星期不回来你也不想，情人三天不见你就给她打电话：上哪去了？今晚我们到老地方喝杯咖啡好吗？心中有了苦闷，你最想找个红颜知己倾诉，告诉她你在妻子和情人之间疲于奔命，实在受不了了。
    最让男人受不了的是妻子的唠叨，情人的眼泪，红颜知己的误解。妻子的唠叨使男人的心乱上加乱，情人的眼泪让男人已硬的心变得酥软，红颜知己的误解把男人的心由悬崖推进深谷。
    最好的妻子，就是男人能从她身上找到情人和红颜知己两种相互交织的感觉，只是这种感觉男人很难找到。最好的情人是在你和她的关系被妻子发现而主动退出又不提任何要求，只是情人很难做到这点。最好的红颜知己是有一天她能成为情人，甚至妻子，只是这种想法很难实现。
    如果有可能，男人都在想把红颜知己变成情人，如果再有可能，再把她变成妻子。只是变成妻子的红颜知己就不再是知己了，因为很少有男人把自己的妻子当成知己的。男人心中有好多秘密不能随便说给妻子听。要不，那还叫男人么？
    娶一个妻子是为了怕别人说闲话，找一个情人是为了给单调的生活加点味精，交一个红颜知己是想给空虚的心灵浇点鸡汤。男人一生都在寻找的不是一个妻子，也不是一个情人，而是一个甚至更多的红颜知己。
    有些失去是注定的，有些缘分是永远不会有结果的，爱一个人不一定要拥有，但拥有了一个人就一定要珍惜，不要等到伤害的时候才去乞求原谅，不要等到失去的时候再去挽回。如果我不小心流下一滴泪水，那是因为我不愿意忘记你是谁。

但妻子成為我們妻子之前也是我們的情人啊。。
為什麼我們又去找別的情人呢。。
情人成為妻子之後不再是情人了嗎。。
什麼東西變了呢。。

i guess guys can never settle on what they already have for a long time, or it is the problem of the before and after marriage face from the wife.

the following pic is dedicated to bro simonkok

Thank you for the report brother!

what is par3?

good thx for sharing!!!!

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-4-14 14:26 發表
i guess guys can never settle on what they already have for a long time, or it is the problem of the before and after marriage face from the wife.

the following pic is dedicated to bro simonkok

你地個個都甘講。。。。甘就快嚇走晒D囡囡喇。。。。

好彩。。我真名。。唔係甘多人知0即。。。

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