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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-7 12:44 發表
Yes, right. The money I give to MM is always more than my wives. But, there are always some special events that I have to spend on the Wives, or their family. e.g., the social unemployment/retireme ...

That is sure la....but the main thing is that lunch box/boxes not staying with us for money...
Ah Jiao bought her own train ticket from SH to SZ and stayed two weeks here.  I gave her only 3000 and a ticket back..
She certainly could earn much more if she stayed and worked in SH...
I intentionally gave that little money to her..and i will keep giving little to her..
I know her already 10 months and  she just stays with me all the time...and never ask for anything...
So she is my lunch box and wl be so for a long while...

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-7 14:55 發表


That is sure la....but the main thing is that lunch box/boxes not staying with us for money...
Ah Jiao bought her own train ticket from SH to SZ and stayed two weeks here.  I gave her only 300 ...

用錢買身, 用心換心

agreed X 100 times !!!!  

Like Da Hoi said, money and time are the 2 best testers to test whether the girl is really loves you or your money.

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-7 15:30 發表
agreed X 100 times !!!!  

Like Da Hoi said, money and time are the 2 best testers to test whether the girl is really loves you or your money.

: I am never a good player in this field...   to all Dai Gors here who are experts to play around with love and $ on different targets.

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原帖由 denny2000 於 2008-5-7 16:02 發表


: I am never a good player in this field...   to all Dai Gors here who are experts to play around with love and $ on different targets.

me 2, i am not a good player, i am a captain of sinking boat

As long as you enjoy it, why not ?

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-7 16:31 發表
As long as you enjoy it, why not ?

i dont enjoy, i am proud of it, like u, we have heart

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原帖由 colorbhk 於 2008-5-7 16:07 發表



me 2, i am not a good player, i am a captain of sinking boat

me 3!!!!!!!!!!!!!!真羡慕七少c兄, 有心有力, 又受囡囡歡迎, 仲可以玩埋道具tim!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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原帖由 ying8585 於 2008-5-7 21:32 發表



me 3!!!!!!!!!!!!!!真羡慕七少c兄, 有心有力, 又受囡囡歡迎, 仲可以玩埋道具tim!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Do you know why I am so favorable among girls ? The reason is that when I was in my secondary school, I learned an essay by 韓非 - 說難. This essay taught me if you want to move someone towards what you want, move her to where she wants to be.

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-7 16:27 發表



Do you know why I am so favorable among girls ? The reason is that when I was in my secondary school, I learned an essay by 韓非 - 說難. This essay taught me if you want to move someone towar ...

I still cannot figure out what you mean!!!

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原帖由 jjchan218 於 2008-5-8 00:39 發表


I still cannot figure out what you mean!!!

"《說難》：

凡說之難：非吾知之，有以說之之難也；又非吾辯之，能明吾意之難也；又非吾敢橫失，而能盡之難也。凡說之難，在知所說之心，可以吾說當之。所說出於為名高者也，而說之以厚利，則見下節而遇卑賤，必棄遠矣。所說出於厚利者也，而說之以名高，則見無心而遠事情，必不收矣。所說陰為厚利而顯為名高者也，而說之以名高，則陽收其身而實疏之，說之以厚利，則陰用其言顯棄其身矣。此不可不察也。"



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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-7 16:43 發表



"《說難》：

凡說之難：非吾知之，有以說之之難也；又非吾辯之，能明吾意之難也；又非吾敢橫失，而能盡之難也。凡說之難，在知所說之心，可以吾說當之。所說出於為名高者也，而說之以厚利，則見下節 ...

【譯文】
大凡進說的困難：不是難在我的才智能夠用來向君主進說，也不是難在我的口才能夠闡明我的意見，也不是難在我敢毫無顧忌地把看法全部表達出來。大凡進說的困難：在於瞭解進說對象的心理，以便用我的說法適應他。進說對象想要追求美名的，卻用厚利去說服他，就會顯得節操低下而得到卑賤待遇，必然受到拋棄和疏遠。進說物件想要追求厚利的，卻用美名去說服他，就會顯得沒有心計而又脫離實際，必定不會被接受和錄用。進說對象暗地追求原利而表面追求美名的，用美名向他進說，他就會表面上錄用而實際上疏遠進說者；用厚利向他進說，他就會暗地採納進說者的主張而表面疏遠進說者。這是不能不明察的。

The most important point is this sentence.

"凡說之難，在知所說之心，可以吾說當之。"

Thank you ching for doing the translation for me.

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原帖由 jjchan218 於 2008-5-8 00:39 發表
I still cannot figure out what you mean!!!

溝女心理學。。
技巧是重要。。但也要條女對你有感覺才行的。。

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-8 00:43 發表



"《說難》：

凡說之難：非吾知之，有以說之之難也；又非吾辯之，能明吾意之難也；又非吾敢橫失，而能盡之難也。凡說之難，在知所說之心，可以吾說當之。所說出於為名高者也，而說之以厚利，則見下節 ...

FIRST LESSON and summary in professional sales training.

這也是人生的一大課！雖然有些兄弟未必同意這種人生態度！

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-8 00:43 發表



"《說難》：

凡說之難：非吾知之，有以說之之難也；又非吾辯之，能明吾意之難也；又非吾敢橫失，而能盡之難也。凡說之難，在知所說之心，可以吾說當之。所說出於為名高者也，而說之以厚利，則見下節 ...

七少兄學識之淵博, 直教小弟不禁為之欽巠, 君之忠言, 吾當謹記之, 以之為鑑!!!!!!!

Compare with other ching here, I am only a chicken-worm.

5月5日 去完溫泉後上班後

七少 ： 老婆，你們在做什麼？

柔柔回信

剛和瑩瑩吃完飯。一起喝咖啡聊天。


七少 ：柔，瑩，這幾天玩得開心嗎？


瑩瑩回信

真的好開心！我和柔姐說我們都得了後遺症 (愛上3-some )了！問你怎麼辦！哈哈！

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-8 14:56 發表
Compare with other ching here, I am only a chicken-worm.

me 2

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-5-8 19:28 發表
5月5日 去完溫泉後上班後

七少 ： 老婆，你們在做什麼？

柔柔回信

剛和瑩瑩吃完飯。一起喝咖啡聊天。


七少 ：柔，瑩，這幾天玩得開心嗎？


瑩瑩回信

真的好開心！我和柔姐說我們都得了後遺症 ...

be careful of the 4-some

it will be here somewhere in your bedroom very soon

You are chicken-worm, not a bed-worm !! Ha Ha!

如果全部人物到最後都是真心的，真是天下奇聞！我問過男男女女，都沒有一個女孩願意給另外一或多個女孩同時同地共亨一夫！至於大玩3P4P，振動器，女搞女或男女混合戰等變態性玩意，簡直不可思議！從這4頁紙所寫的，絕大部份都是性，我根本看不出有任何愛的成份，只是有人為了要達到某些性樂趣而作出了一些角色的安排。快樂不知時日過，大把手尾跟著來。

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原帖由 longdongsilver 於 2008-5-9 15:46 發表
如果全部人物到最後都是真心的，真是天下奇聞！我問過男男女女，都沒有一個女孩願意給另外一或多個女孩同時同地共亨一夫！至於大玩3P4P，振動器，女搞女或男女混合戰等變態性玩意，簡直不可思議！從這4頁紙所寫的 ...

閣下太武斷了.............. 正所謂各有前因！ "夏蟲語冰" 這典故是很有意思的！

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原帖由 icheng609 於 2008-5-9 16:09 發表

閣下太武斷了.............. 正所謂各有前因！ "夏蟲語冰" 這典故是很有意思的！

子非魚, 又豈知魚之樂?