First, I want to say thanks for the recent comments by twiceAweek and Whitekitty with regards to respecting the privacy of the bgs you enjoy visiting. They’ve made some very important points that we all must keep in mind and honour.
I have been enjoying going to HK saunas for about 20 years now. There are a few saunas that I prefer for ambience/facilities, but I mostly follow my favourite girls to wherever they choose to work. Some of them are currently working at Windsor, so when I have the time I go visit them. Once in a while I will try new girls, but I invariably come back to my favourites (sort of like coming home, I guess!
). Visiting them is very much like taking a holiday from the troubles of daily life. For a few hours they take good care of me and I can forget the world.
Over the years I have even become good friends with some of the girls, and have met their friends (inside and outside the sauna), and in some cases their families. I feel fortunate to have developed these friendships.
I say all this because I want the forum readers to know where I’m coming from, perspective-wise, and to try to establish some credibility for what I’m about to say. So I apologise for the length of this post, but I believe it is necessary.
Whenever there are posts in English that the girls can’t easily understand, a number of them ask me to come here and translate for them. And there have been a lot of posts in English lately. I’m happy to do that and try to include the context of the posts as best I can. But with the recent topics being around privacy issues, I feel I need to add some commentary based on my experience and trust with the girls I know.
First, whatever you do or say with a girl, or whatever she does or says to you, should remain just between you two. If you truly like and respect her, this should not be a problem (right?). There is no reason to act like a schoolboy and tell others
. What she may be willing to do for you, or say to you, you cannot, nor should not, assume she will do for others, even if they are your “friends”. She has trusted you and hopes you will not betray her trust. All this should be obvious and go without saying, but, unfortunately, too many customers do betray the girls’ trust (via posts, PMs, word of mouth, etc.), and she then has to deal with unwanted gossip and/or pressure from others. That little waiting room the girls sit in is indeed very small and the gossip can be vicious. And many customers, upon hearing gossip and other customers’ breach of trust, enter the massage room with high expectations and requests that sometimes border on demands. It doesn’t make a pleasant job experience for the girls.
Which brings me to another behaviour that some of you customers need to refrain from. Some of you, when your expectations aren’t met, proceed to recite a list of girls in the sauna that will meet your expectations, as if this would convince the girl you’re with to change her mind and accommodate you. All this does is prove to the girl that you are a customer that can’t be trusted, and that she has made a wise decision with regards to your true nature. And you have also given the girl some considerable ammunition for back-room gossip.
Moreover, some customers, who think they have become good friends with the girls they visit, will start talking about what other girls in the sauna will do for them, as if this was a secret being shared among friends. This is not wise either. First, the girl you’re telling things to may feel that “if you can talk about other girls’ secrets, they what can/will you say about me to other girls?” Second, you have just provided fodder for gossip. Even if you think you know the girl well, you may not know who she doesn’t like among her colleagues. She can use your words to hurt others.
So for myself, I never talk about any other girls when I visit a bg. Nor do I ever tell my friends what my personal experiences with the girls I visit have been. And I believe, for these reasons, my sauna experiences in Hong Kong have been, and will continue to be, some of the most wonderful times in my life.
If you care to think about it, you really don’t need to come to a forum to find girls you will like. You just need to invest some time (and, yes, a little money) to explore and build some genuine trust. And, in the end, that’s the fun and adventure of it all.
Finally, f you don’t have the patience to find whatever it is that you are looking for, and want a 100% hit rate every time you go, then you really need to consider where to go. Windsor may not be your real cup of tea.
Again, sorry for my long-winded post. But I hope the spirit of what I have said is taken sincerely to heart by all who read it.
