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原帖由 par3 於 2008-3-5 01:51 發表


in 2007, i just sunk, almost got drown, recover, re-sunk, re-got drown ......
basically, i am trying to post a lot of these kinds ofl sinking reports to remind and help myself in making decisi ...

You are still a good guy even now!!

Just like I said, if I were You, I would not pay the $.  !!!!!!

[ 本帖最後由 7-siu 於 2008-3-6 10:24 編輯 ]

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-3-5 23:04 發表



You are still a good guy even now!!

Just like I said, if I were You, I would not pay the $???  !!!!!!

係囉...我情願留D錢去番....5次 x 6日癡線瘋狂trip...

[ 本帖最後由 simonkok 於 2008-3-6 09:58 編輯 ]

keep it serect on what have been happening

[ 本帖最後由 par3 於 2008-3-6 12:53 編輯 ]

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-3-6 09:29 發表
keep it serect on what have been happening
still have time to delete the amount in the post?

我delete左amount in引用....wait for 7-siu

Deleted. However, my heart has ache , not for the amount of $, but for the passion you have been putting in.

Once the MM asks for money, for whatever reason, you know the MM likes only your money, not you...

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-3-6 10:25 發表
Deleted. However, my heart has ache , not for the amount of $, but for the passion you have been putting in.

if i don't try, i never know ma, i just feel that she has the heart to change, but there is a lot of things need to be worked out in between and the gap may be too large lor, i told her i will meet her after i come back, may need big gun's help to make a phone call to clarify her heart as i think big gun is the only one whom she won't related to in our group i didn't call her ever since i came, just try to focus on the matter i am encountering currently.

沉船大家都知道要避免，但一個人經常出來玩，加上偶遇上包括不順心，太開心都有的天時地利，沉船有時攩都擋不住

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-3-5 01:51 發表


in 2007, i just sunk, almost got drown, recover, re-sunk, re-got drown ......
basically, i am trying to post a lot of these kinds ofl sinking reports to remind and help myself in making decisi ...

par 3 gor, just treat it as an experience for your sinking/recovered/resinking.  

If it is a heartbreak (bcos you find out that she betrays you), then think about we also betray them (the girls) since I do not believe we are "vegetarian" when we sink. Having said that, of course, we all hope that our sinking partners are 100% loyal to us.

If it is $$, then think about buying a luxurious hi-fi, or a car, etc.  Most men have some habits of spending big $ and if you spend $$ on girls, you just spend less on your hi-fi or your car.  

The above is my true feeling (or convincing myself)  since I have gone thru. this in the last 3 years of sinking, and still keep on doing it foolishly...   I have gone thru. heartbreaks, sweetness, heartbreaks again,etc   $$$ spent/contributed...  no money to buy a car or hi-end hi=fi   However, whenever I feel alone, sad, regretful, i ask myself if the joy/sweetness/satisfaction that I had via sinking ship could not be gained via other means, then, it seems that I have no way not to sink ship.   

I know that I may experience more heartbreaks and $$ in sinking girl continuously. I hope i could stop one day..  Not the time yet but hope that I will.

agree with bro zcjc & denny2000, sometimes i just strongly believe in fate, the way we met was like 1 in 100000000000000000000000000 chances, if anything went wrong in the first encounter, i believe there won't be any follow up at all, and sometimes things just seemed to be so perfect in the beginning.

天意弄人

i am using this site to input chinese characters from a completely english format windows.
just feel that english can't describe these 4 simple chinese words

oh, i am wondering if china honor premarital agreement, i remember when i was working in macau, my colleagues needed to fill out an official form to settle the money stuff for the future before they can finish the registeration process. seems like mandatory to pick one in macau. i guess the safe thing is that if we ever plan to marry gals from china, just don't let them know too much about this law or we will be so unprotected i am not trying to say every gal is bad, but i really want some self protection in the matter.

婚前協議在港無約束力
超級富豪為免在離婚後遭伴侶分身家，近年開始流行簽署「婚前協議」（premarital agreement），雙方在婚前先協議若一旦離婚，財產如何分配，一般是富豪丈夫承諾贍養費的金額，保證巨額身家不會被老婆瓜分。不過，香港以及其他普通法    地區，一直都沒有肯定婚前協議的法律地位。

律師葉成慶解釋，婚前協議與婚姻原意有抵觸，故普通法地區的法庭從來沒有肯定婚前協議的法律地位，而香港過去亦一直沒有出現有關討論，法律未有重要改變。「但這視乎社會風氣，若有朝一日社會認為有需要改，將來肯定婚前協議亦不出奇。」

贍養費水平近年大升

其實，普通法地區的超級富豪不單止無法預防被伴侶分身家，法庭近年更將贍養費的水平大幅提升。在2000年，英國    法院於「White」案中一改沿用多年的婚姻法原則，指妻子於婚姻財產的分配中，應獲法庭「平等對待」，廢除過往離婚案中富豪常用的「富豪抗辯」（Millionaire Defence），即「富豪」作出的補償只需要滿足伴侶日後生活的「合理需求」（Reasonable Requirements），無必要作出巨額補償，而該案的原則，已多番在香港法庭被引用，成為香港婚姻法的重要部分。

[ 本帖最後由 par3 於 2008-3-6 23:03 編輯 ]

01. 沒有一百分的另一半，只有五十分的兩個人。

02. 付出真心，才會得到真心，卻也可能傷得徹底；保持距離，就能保護自己，卻也註定永遠寂寞。

03. 通常願意留下來跟你爭吵的人，才是真正愛你的人。

04. 有時候，不是對方不在乎你，而是你把對方看得太重。

05. 冷漠，有時候並不是無情，只是一種避免被傷害的工具。

06. 如果我們之間有 1000步的距離，你只要跨出第1步，我就會朝你的方向走其餘的999步。

07. 為你的難過而快樂的，是敵人；為你的快樂而快樂的，是朋友；為你的難過而難過的，就是那些，該放進心裡的人。

08. 就算是believe，中間也藏了一個lie 。

09.真正的好朋友，並不是在一起就有聊不完的話題；而是在一起，就算不說話，也不會感到尷尬。

10. 朋友就是把你看透了，還能喜歡你的人。

If you kiss her, you are not a gentleman
لو قبلتها , تكون رجلاً غير محتــرم

If you don't, you are not a man
ولو لم تقبلها, تكون لست رجلاً

If you praise her, she thinks you are lying
إذا مدحتهــا تعتقــد أنـــك كـــــذاب

If you don't, you are good for nothing
وإذا لم تمدحهـــا تعتقد بأنك لا تصلــح لشيء

If you agree to all her likes, you are a wimp
إذا وافقتها على كل ما تريد تعتقد أنك بلا شخصيـــة

If you don't, you are not understanding
وإذا لم توافقهـــا أنت رجـــل لا يفهــم شيئاً

If you visit her often, she thinks it is boring
إذا زرتهــا كثيراً تعتقد أنــك رجــل غثيــث

If you don't, she accuses you of double-crossing
وإذا لم تزرهـــا فـــأنت شخص لا مبالي

If you are well dressed, she says you are a playboy
إذا كــنـــت مهتماً بمظهرك وشياكتك فأنت رجـــل لعـــوب

If you don't, you are a dull boy
وإذا لم تلبــس جيداً فأنـــت رجـــل تحرق الأعصـــاب

If you are jealous, she says it's bad
إذا كـنــت رجلاً غيوراً فـــأنت سيء الطبـــاع

If you don't, she thinks you do not love her
وإذا لم تظهــر لك غيرتهـــا فإنهــا تعتقــد أنـــك لا تحبهـــا

If you are a minute late, she complains it's hard to wait
إذا تأخرت عليها دقيقــة فإنها تشتكي وتتذمر وتقول : ما أصعب الانتظار !

If you visit another man, you're not putting in "quality time"
وإذا كنت تزور أحــد أصدقائــك فإنها تقول : بأنك رجــــل فاضي !

If you fail to help her in crossing the street,you lack ethics
إذا لم تتوقف لهـــا حتى تقطع الشارع فأنت رجـــل عديـــم الأخلاق

If you do, she thinks it's just one of men's tactics for seduction
أمـــا إذا وقفــت فإنها تعتقــد بأنك واقف حتى تتفـــرج عليهـــا

If you stare at another woman, she accuses you of flirting
إذا كنت تراقــب أحد النساء فإنك رجل تغــازل وعيونك زايغـــة !

If she is stared by other men, she says that they are just admiring
أمـــا إذا نظر إليها أحـــد الرجـــال فإنه أحـــد المعجبيـــن !

If you talk, she wants you to listen
إذا تكلمــــت فإنهـــا تريـــد أن تــســتــمع

If you listen, she wants you to talk
وإذا سمعـــت فإنهـــا تريـــد أن تــتـــكلم !

In short:
وباختصـــار

So simple, yet so complex
بسيطـــــــــــــــات ومعقــــدات

So weak, yet so powerful
ضعيفات, لكنهن قويات

So confusing, yet so desirable
متناقضات ومنطقيـــــات

can't live with them..
لا تستطيــــــــــــــع العيــش معهم

can't live without them ...
ولا تستطيــــع العيش بدونهـــم

這一段令人有很深的反醒！

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-3-7 02:55 發表
05. 冷漠，有時候並不是無情，只是一種避免被傷害的工具。香港討論。

這句也是我想做到的...可惜不是時常能做到.

昨天跟你借的幸福.是今天以後的回顧.

我是怕被伤害。。我会要爱我多过我爱她的女人。。不会要当我是次选的女人。。她心里是想着她的首选。。只是首选没能要她。。我可能没能够感受到真爱。。但我真不能被伤害。。

hmm, it is highly unlikely i will stay in tibet for several months any more this year, wondering if the riot is a good or bad thing to me...

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-3-16 13:11 發表
hmm, it is highly unlikely i will stay in tibet for several months any more this year, wondering if the riot is a good or bad thing to me...

Of course, this riot is good for you la. You always complain you have wasted too much time there. Now you have good excuse not to go there for a long time la.

So, our team get 1 more strong member.

checking out elong to prepare my northeast trip and try to learn more about harbin, seems traps are everywhere if i know nothing about hanging out

晚上小姐电话多，一不小心套住你，非弄你个1-2千或一分不剩不可。有道是：婊子无情，多弄一分是一分！ ?

小姐电话太多，一个接一个，还有下套打麻将的，电话管理比较乱，本人曾被小姐黑过一笔，敢怒而不敢言。毕竟人在他乡啊！东北小姐没有职业道德。周围环境还好，转街比较方便。

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原帖由 par3 於 2007-3-28 15:52 發表
入廠前一個星期,任小姐因為老豆有病入院返o左四川屋企,咁o岩佢架車十六號凌晨到,所以十五號下晝佢打俾我,問如果到o左可唔可以o係我度住一晚,因為佢住o個度凌晨已經閂o左閘冇得入,我話冇問題.到時同佢聯絡.

點知晚飯返房後有事入o左廠,開始知道唔妥打算搵人送我入醫院前發o左個短信俾佢,話俾佢知我要入醫院唔知要到幾時遲o的聯絡,佢叫我唔駛擔心佢大不了o係網吧等天光...

此乃上述提到前後事之前事

出院之後返到房,又發o左個短信睇佢點,佢話同一齊坐車上o黎o既人食緊宵夜,本來打算食完去網吧吽,我叫佢過o黎,因為心諗坐車上o黎一定好辛苦等佢目訓返覺好好抖抖第朝返工精神o的,亦冇將大修o既事話佢知,開定門掩埋等佢o黎因為驚之後冇力,期間又癡癡迷迷咁目訓o左一陣,到佢上到o黎見我攤o左o係度,話做乜唔話佢知,我話費事你擔心啦,佢同我搓o左條毛巾擦背脊,因為一路標冷汗成身濕晒,o個一晚我先親身感受到身體好虛弱係點o既.之後又斟水又呢又路攪一大輪,佢先上隔離床目訓,隔o左一陣,我開口問佢可唔可以攬住佢目訓,佢二話不說就走o左上我張床,因為o個一刻自己有o的空虛,想攬住佢,之後又問佢可唔可以除o左件衫,因為條拉鍊o係正佢咪咪個位塊面貼住唔舒服,佢笑一笑就除o左件衫攬住我.之後...冇下文啦話晒我真係一個病人,只係想有人慰藉o下空虛o既心靈o者.

第二朝目訓醒,又停電,o個一刻又令我諗起趙小姐,睇曹查理o個晚識o個位囡囡是也.任小姐走去沖涼,出o黎見佢洗o左頭覺得佢好靚影o左佢兩張相,之後佢走埋o黎攬住我,唔知佢想安慰病人定情不自禁,細佬目訓醒之後居然有反應,就係咁樣出廠唔夠七個鐘,連o野都出埋其實同佢平時已經好少做,因為我唔想俾錯誤信息佢以為我同佢會有將來,希望佢自力更生到我唔再返西藏時佢可以完全脫離倒以前o既陰影,有自己o既新生活,o個日之後我o係西藏o個幾個月,亦都冇同佢再目訓埋過o係一張床,只係佢有時放工一齊食餐飯,幫佢買o的日用品就叫佢自己返屋企,至於任小姐點解會輾轉o黎o左西藏,以後有機會再講啦.

other than congratulation, i don't know what else i can say to her


好的，你也要多注意自己的哦,这边的情况还可以，现在都恢复平静了,也感觉不到了.你放心,我很好. 很希望你过得很好,
要告诉你个好消息,我要结婚了，因为我有宝宝了,但我还没有准备好要这个宝宝,我还没有做好准备在突然之间我的生活里多了个人.我不知所措,

time flies by, today is 1 year old birthday for the rack, i am handcuffed lately as i can't type chinese, but i will try to do something in order to show my appreciation for bros' support. otherwise, bros may lose interest as the rack contains so many words without any picture lately, keke

star of star? not sure about the correct name in english

[ 本帖最後由 par3 於 2008-3-27 20:24 編輯 ]

her mimis looks so nice, but... they are fake ones.

RMB$150 from FL, this is re visit,  completely no service, but still worth the money for a 17 years old great  mimis and narrow feel.

恭喜貴貨架1週年誌慶！什麼時候回來？我在香港了。